If it’s not one thing it’s another. DH just had it out with SD15 on the phone. She told him she is going to move with her half-brother back to her home state. DH stood up to her and said HELL NO, you’re not living on your own at 15/16, that he decides where she lives and living with her half-siblings is not an option.

Like she always does when someone tells her she can’t do what she wants, she got pissed off and said she’s going whether he gives her permission or not. He told her if she leaves then he’s going to go drag her butt back here and then she is going to have no choice but to stay with us this summer and next school year.

She went ballistic, started yelling and screaming at him and threatened that if he makes her move back and that she’ll make him regret it and promised she will run away every chance she gets and make sure he pays for ruining her life. So we’ll get a repeat of last year only 1000x times worse.

I seriously cannot take her living here again even if she was behaving like an angel. I can’t stand this girl and her attitude. But angry pissed off running away SD15?!? No f’ing way am I allowing her in my home. When DH tells her that she can’t do something, she treats it as a challenge to do it to spite him. I can't deal with her.

To recap a little, SD is currently living with her aunt and uncle in another state after she made it unbearable for her to live in our home. Her 19 year old half-brother (same BM) also moved in with them and is pretty much the only reason she agreed to stay there.

Her half-brother has a summer internship in their home state and is moving back there in May. SD wants to go with him or move in with her 22 year old half-sister who’s in college (also in their home state). (Her aunt and uncle live in a state adjacent to her home state, DH and I live over 1000 miles away) SD did stay with her half-sister last summer, but she's not a long term solution due to school commitments.

I’m not going to let SD in my home if she’s going to be waging a war against us and if I have to worry about her running away. But I hate that that little bitch is going to get what she wants by using threats. I don’t care where she goes, I won’t let her in my home.