Full time SM here. BM has been out of entire picture for years now. SD11 is all take and all moody pre-teen hormonal girl. Yeah, I know...it's normal...but...it's not normal for me as the fulltime SM to have to deal with it WITHOUT any real parental authorities!!

Tonight, I make dinner. The entire upstairs of the house is dark. I assume SD is at her friend's house as usual. I serve dinner to DH and BD. An hour later, SD suddenly appears from out of her room and says, "Is my food ready?" I'm completely caught off guard AS ALWAYS.

Really SD??!! Really DH??!! I'm a little pissed and irritated that I'm trying to run a household here but the people under my roof FAIL to communicate even the simplest of things!!!

DH refuses to discuss any of it because he is so upset at himself for getting a felon pregnant so she can try to leach off him. MORON.