I just realized I should probably let some of you know that there's still no baby yet I have had the conversation with DH about his kids not needing to be there until well after Isaac (the new baby) is born. I actually talked to my SD13 about it too, asking if she wanted to be there (b/c she was the only one I was comfortable with just being in the waiting room) and she said she'd just rather wait at home and then show up with the baby there.

So, we had our monthly two hour supervised vistit (at the court house) with the younger two's BM right before school started. Well, she had insisted the visit before that she wnated to buy the kids shoes for school. Mind you, she claimed the last time we were in court 3 years ago can only work 5 hours a week b/c of the stress we've put her through and only pays $110/month for TWO KIDS!! (The other BM pays nothing.) Anyway, that's here nor there.

So, we're now at the time the SS (now 14) comes to live with us and SD (now 13) and SS (now are all living with us. The two youngest we found out were molested and my mom and grandma had died earlier in the year.....