I've been going in at night and doing H's job or at least the computer part of it. Then come home sleep for a couple of hours, then go see H and have a counseling session, then go meet with IRS and lawyer. I know it will take a while before we see any real improvement with H but I'm hopeful. It's taking a time but we almost have the IRS problem worked out, finally. But the hardest thing is my MIL is having heart surgery Fri., she is having 2 valves replaced and I'm worried about her. She's been in the hospital since Sunday and calls me every night to talk. I'm exhausted but I know she's scared and needs to talk to someone. She told me that I make her laugh and forget about everything for a while. Last night she was laughing so hard alarms went off and a nurse had to come in and give her oxygen. My sils hate it that she talks to me about what's going on and not them. Sucks to be them. I'm going to go try to get a nap in before anyone else calls.