So just a few moments ago, after my last post, DH texts me and says BM called him and told him SD wanted to talk to him, apparently she hates me. Well I told him I don't really care. That just means I don't have to put any more money or effort into helping or caring for her. He can do it. He says that "I don't know how hard it is for her and having a stepfamily". Omg. Disculpeme, que? Seriously did he just say that? GOOD MORNING DH GUESS WHAT YOUR WIFE IS A STEPCHILD!!!! My stepdad has been in my life since I was 3, so 19 years. I don't know how hard it is. Pffft. Lets see my biodad left us when I was 1 and when he was around did more drugs than they have in Cuba. Thank god my stepdad came along and helped my mother with us girls (my sis and I) otherwise I would have never went to college or had a car or a nice wedding. Yes my bio was in the picture off and on, but he is schizophrenic and doesn't medicate, so I'd prefer he be completely off. My stepdad and I did butt heads A LOT especially when I was living at home. We practically hated each other. But when I moved away from home he cried. And I realized how much he did love and care for me and that he wasn't trying to just be an arse, he was trying to help me be a better person. And I really truely realized all HE sacrified for us at my wedding. He paid 13000.00 for my wedding, his own money, so I could have the wedding I wanted. He paid 28000.00 for my college tuition, his own money. I don't understand, DH get a clue. I know SD and I are going to butt heads but unless he grows some juevos and steps up, SD isn't going to learn or understand a damn thing.