After talking to my DH last night, I don't ever think we will have a good relationship with his children. They are such a source of disappointment to him that just when he gives them the benefit of the doubt, once again comes sorrow. YSD constantly wanting to change plans whether holiday plans or not is a real kick in the pants for him. I'm married to a "clam" and he won't open up to me that much on what he's thinking or feeling.

Then shocker last night at bedtime he acts like he'd be happier if YSD and her family just didn't come to see us on Christmas Eve. Originally they wanted to see us the Saturday after Christmas for finger foods. Then it was Christmas Eve. Then it was how about the weekend before Christmas. All those times later didn't work because of YSD's husband's family and her troll bio mother's plans kept changing. Now we agree to some time with her on Christmas Eve and I get a damn text message this morning asking if YSD could do 2 loads of laundry at our house!!! DH is still sleeping but let's see what his piss meter is like after this and if he calls and tells her not to bother coming.