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I know it's been discussed, but need suggestions about constantly sick SK and visitation

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Submitted by EvilStephMom on Tue, 11/17/2009 - 3:55pm

I've seen a lot of posts before about issues whether or not to have a sick SK come for visitation. Here's my current dilemma and I'm not sure what to do. SS12 is CONSTANTLY sick. Every visitation starting Sept. he's been sick and has come for visitation. This has caused havoc on everyone here. At least one of us has gotten sick after every single visit. My ExBFD, who lives with me now, is starting college in 2 weeks and she really can't keep getting sick and possibly missing school. She has gotten sick twice now from 2 different visits.

So I've disengaged

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Submitted by EvilStephMom on Fri, 10/30/2009 - 4:55pm

Sorry this is going to be long, but I'm really pissed off. I have finally had it. When FH and I got together we lived in separate states. I moved to his state because he has 2 little boys and he wanted to have custody of them and still be close enough so that they could see their BM. My "daughter" (ExBFD) was all grown up so it wasn't that she needed me all the time, but it was still very hard because we are close and she would spend weekends with me and we'd do "mom" and "daughter" things.

I'm flabbergasted and just pissed off!

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Submitted by EvilStephMom on Thu, 10/15/2009 - 2:03pm

Hi everyone! I'm new to posting but have been reading/lurking for awhile now and have really enjoyed all the conversations. A little background on me; I've never been married, but was with my ex-BF for 10 years and then still really good friends after the split. We had 50/50 custody of his daughter (I came in the picture when she was 5) until she was 12 then full custody after that. We split up when she was 16. Her and I have always been close and I was still very active in her life after we split. Currently, I'm engaged to a wonderful man with 2 sons.