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i went on my first date and dh and i aren't even seperated yet

enoughisenough2me's picture

my mom called me to see if i wanted to meet her my aunt, great aunt and gpa for dinner. HELL YEAH! i'm trying to spend all the time i can with my gpa because he has unopperable pancreatic cancer. so i get there early and get my name on the list so they didn't have to wait so long. they get there and my grandpa grabbed my hand and said "i'm going to hold your hand so everyone thinks i'm your sugar daddy" i laughed, it took me time to "play along" i called him grandpa, he said "you're supposed to address me as honey, dear or darling" i said "ok grandpa dearest" lol he played like that through the whole meal. I got up to go use the restroom after eating, he then said "do you need help" of course i turned that down.

as we were leaving, they were waiting for my mom to come back with the car, there was a whole slew of ppl waiting for a table outside, so i strutted my stuff, walked up to my grandpa and as i was walking i spoke loudly, and said "thank you for dinner honey darling dear" lol it was so much fun.

that was his way of telling me he knew my plans and supports me 100% in getting away from my current situation. Blum 3

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DeeDeeTX's picture

That sounds like a lot of fun. I am so happy you have a loving supportive family.

enoughisenough2me's picture

i do, that's for sure, my mom is helping me get stuff situated so i can make my move. i'm waiting for the county to take the house due to unpaid taxes, or dd to finish school, which ever comes first

Auteur's picture

YAY!! So glad to hear you had a great time!!! And in my experience, the faster you can exit stepHELL the better!! Better yet, never get involved in stepHELL!

This afternoon I"m going to distribute flyers for my book. New mission? Warn EVERY SINGLE WOMAN (especially child free and older women whose children were parented correctly and grown) to avoid men with children like the PLAGUE!!

enoughisenough2me's picture

i wont get involved with a man with kids again (least not unless it's because bm passed and he has true control over them, even that i would still hesitate)

enoughisenough2me's picture

yes i know it is, i haven't ever seen it up close and personal yet, but i'm sure i will. he has an appointment tomorrow to discuss treatment (they are leaning to something that'll just keep him comfortable)

Holly's picture

I never knew either of my grandpas... Yours sounds so lovely! I'm so glad your family are being so terrific Smile

enoughisenough2me's picture

i didn't know my dad's side because my dad's dad was killed in a drive by shooting at a gas station when my dad was 7, his mom went in the looney after that, when i was 7 i was looking for her, called the nursing home and found out she had passed the same time my dad disappeared from me and my brother

so my mom's set is all i've ever known.

and thank you, i can be fun but i can be a bitch too (depends on what day you catch me on) Blum 3