After finding this site last week I have really felt empowered. I have been pretending to like my SS15 for almost 10 years. It hasn't all been bad, but I think that's only because I just learned not to care at times.
I was raised in a pretty strict household full of spanking, grounding, and basic consequences for acting up. My DH on the other hand, was passed around and had no structure at all. He wants to be his son's friend when he is here (twice a week and on weekends) and I totally am against that.