She never fully responded to my SOs three things (basically asking her to follow the CO and the law), so she decided to leave a Voicemail(she called from her boyfriends phone) saying "i guess you decided you aren't going to let me have them so I guess that is that" and then sent an email friday morning basically saying the same thing. My SO emailed her back friday evening stating again that he doesn't feel it is in the best interest of the kids for her to drive alone with a suspended license, stated that if she made other arrangements/had someone else drive her/if her license was not suspended, then he would have let her take them as long as he had an address/her allow the kids to have a provided cell phone. She hasn't responded to him since, and hasn't called the kids since then either.

If she provides those three things in the next 2 weeks, she can still take them for the remainder of her 6 weeks. If no contact by them, the kids are going to visit their grandparents in a different state during July. The kids even made an unsolicited comment that they didnt want to spend the summer with their Uncle (mothers brother) and when asked about "what about grandparents (my SOs parents)" they excitedly said yes.

So i guess that is that. Almost seems like she didn't really want to come get them, but wanted to try to make my SO the bad guy instead of herself for not coming to get them.