I understand kids are excited for their birthday to come around! At least little kids. My kids have always enjoyed their birthday but didn't go on and on about it! SS14 has been talking about his birthday on FB and to everyone for the past 2 months. He was on a countdown....

We let him choose where he wanted to go out for dinner. He picked PF Changs as though he were choosing Mc Donalds as though we were forcing him to go. We let him choose what he wanted off the menu, he picked at his food. We gave him a card with $100 cash and the first thing out of his mouth was "did you at least let my mom know that you didn't get me anything?" :jawdrop: I immediately asked for the cash back! Of course he said no that he wanted it but that he also wanted more gifts. I told him I'd take the cash and buy a "gift" instead. I was pissed! DH did nothing, said nothing!

We had SS all school year long. He was supposed to be with him mom in the summer but of course he isn't! And of course I had no say! DH started nights again so I'm left with SS each night! His BM is moving back into town so SS is supposed to be with her each night DH is at work. I just found out the BM has been here for the last 2 weeks. She supposedly got a new house with a "huge" room for SS with his own bathroom. Please tell me why in the hell SS is staying with me!! OMG I just want to be left alone!! I wish I could truly express this to DH without him thinking I hate his kid! My BD14 lives with us full time and does not see her father. I suppose that is why I don't say anything because I know he'll fire back something about my kid!