Well, we finally got the news today that thatnk you to the courts system we have, she is not required to get a job. The Judge believes the lazy idiot of a BM...

So not this house hold is stressing because I just had a axial lift/fusion/partial disc replacement surgery on my back and currently have not been clear to be able to go back to work... so the strain of a 1 income house hold has been bad enough. Now, it has become a 2 household 1 income situation and it does not appear to be a bright side as of yet in this entire situation.

Yes, I am still pursueing many options in reference to the BM becasue she feels as though she is above the law.... Well, in due time she will ge thers, but in the mean time, I am trying to go back to work AMA... and that is not going to be a good thing, but we can not live like we are while she lives high on the hog sitting on her ass for the time being...

Change of Subject:

Thanks to my Husband, the disengaging thing worked and he handles the situation with the children. It is pretty crazy that the BM has the older 2 in counseling and neither of them can tell you why, they just are... And the oldest one claims he gets treated "To Good" when he is at our home... Most kids would relish the fact of knowing they get treated well when in the presence of their Sparent... No... Not this one, Thanks to the brain washing of the BIO Idiot....