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Submitted by dreamingofhappiness on Wed, 11/02/2011 - 5:22pm

I am so tired of my life revolving around the idiots and not me and my husband. Then when things go bad, my husband screams at me because this B**CH is screwing with my life.

It is not my fault that she is a greedy worthless piece of crap. It is not my fault that you can not figure out how to spend money, and it sure in hell is not my fault nothing is going your flipping way.
You have absolutely no right blaming me for anything.

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Submitted by sonja on Wed, 11/02/2011 - 6:12pm

Ive started to learn when to see this coming. A lot of times on holidays or before we go do fun stuff with our BS, FDH will call to talk to SD4. Like halloween night.. we had already done halloween events with SD and BS together, but he wanted to call to talk to her before she went trickortreating with BM.

We were on our way out the door to do the same with BS. Then he gets super pissed about what outfit BM has SD wearing and wants to bitch and moan while we're loading up BS to go. I told him to stop that he chose to call her and knew that shed have her in a different costume than was sent last weekend when he asked if she could use her costume when she was with us.

Ugh. know the triggers and stop it before it starts. I understand our Dhs and BFs need to vent, but theres nothing you can do! If you know your going to get pissed DONT CALL! I cant stand it that he wants to ruin our time on BS' first halloween being pissed off about BM and SD!

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Submitted by dreamingofhappiness on Wed, 11/02/2011 - 6:42pm

The problem is now, the BM is playing the game of using the kids to get what she wants. She is using the kids and putting them in the middle of it all. She is trying to force the kids to make sure they hate me and giving them all sorts of reasonings and lies to accomplish it all.

Then with her taking him back to get more CS, he stresses and points fingers. I am sitting here shaking out of anger and disgust... I have done everything in my power to appease EVERYONE and I can not do it anymore. I am thinking about checking myself into the psych ward just to get away from all this and for the shrink to tell me again, I am not doing anything wrong....

I can not breath.