Thank you ahead of time for any advice & responses.

I've been married (2nd marriage) almost 10 yrs. I have 4 adult children, all married w/children & working full-time jobs & home mortgages. 

My husband (married 6 times) has 3 adult daughters.

Oldest daughter is married, 3 children, lives w/her husband's parents (does not pay rent, utilities, expenses, etc..).

2nd daughter single, bouncing from job to job, needs help financially often.