I have been with My wife for 6 years , we have a 14 SS my wife is BM .(plus we have 2 adopted children 6 and 9) He has had several issues with the internet , downloading indecent pictures of girls fingering , plus sexting girls at school , the final straw was last year when he was arrested and charged with 2 counts of sexual assault on a 13 year old girl he was 12 at the time .