My fiances family hates me, and I hate them, can this work.
Well, the pizza party fiasco was today, my fiance went, i stayed home and cleaned for the get together we are having tonight, the pig, my fiances sister is here and threw her father a tacky party at a pizza joint, what a low class thing to do for your fathers 80th birthday party. tacky tacky, I hate that big fat manly looking bitch. I just do not know what to do at this point, by fiance is being pressured by her so much to get rid of me as she puts it. My fiances kids are pretty much imbosils and I cannot stand even looking at his youngest the pee wee herman look a like. This family is soo hateful, i dont know who they think they are, the are so low class with their actions. Is it possible to make it with a family that does not want anyone else in my fiances life? I am so confused I dont know what to do.
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Oh my darling! In-laws can
Oh my darling! In-laws can be a handful. What does your husband say? You need to establish who comes first for your husband. You? Or his family? Once you know, then you'll have to decide what you can live with. If he picked his family over you, what would you do? How would you feel? Would you still love him?
I think it's possible as far
I think it's possible as far as in-laws go. I don't speak with BF's parents and a few of his siblings. I'm pretty sure that they would be more than happy if I were gone. My brother is the only one that speaks to BF out of my family. It can be depressing at times, but we just let our love for each other outshine any hatred trying to come in through our families. You just have to have a strong will for it.
"I have always loved the time before dawn because there is no one around to remind me who I am suppose to be, so it is easier to remember who I am." - unknown
Thank you, for the comments.
Thank you, for the comments. His sister is the pants for the whole family. She is in charge of it all. Very verbally abusive to her mother and is all over her father. She bullies the two brothers, my fiance who cannot seem to get the guts to tell her to mind her own business. If he would be nice once in a while and actually tell me he wont let her talk about me anymore to him then I would feel better and could drop it but he just wont, he blames me for everything that happens. He is always pointing an accusing finger at me for something. His sister is an obsessive control freak. She has no kids no husband and not much of a life, not even a drivers licence so she is not independent really. She has nothing else in her life because if she did she would see that it is weird what she is doing. But, I would like to know how to handle this situation, in my fiances eyes i seem to always be the one thats wrong.