And No, it hasn't been found. In response to posts: Mic's going back to court to enforce the court order that was issued back in the summertime. There was a court date back in January, but she didn't show. He filled out the paperwork that day to reschedule. He has a copy of some sort of paperwork from that day that should prove that he indeed filled out the "lost" paperwork. Thanks for sharing your stories about lost paperwork. When all else fails, it's so encouraging just to know that we are not the only ones going through this.

In terms of the update, Mic and I had a serious discussion yesterday pertaining to the whole situation. I explained that the way things have been going, I was ready to just give up. But we talked about it. He said he's going to buckle down and start taking this seriously (we've had the "If you don't take it seriously, why should the court?" conversation several times, with varying degrees of success- inconsistancy with documentation, etc.). So he's going to be more consistant about doing his part, and I'm going to be more consistant about being supportive throughout the process (something that I need to work on). So, we'll see how things go. But I guess we're going to see this thing through, somehow. Eventually, he'll be able to get in front of the judge...if we could just get that far, I'm pretty sure that things will turn around. I like to think that a judge would be pretty pissed off to find out that someone thinks his orders are a joke. I just keep praying that day will be sooner rather than later, which was why I was so frustrated to find out that we have to go through this all over again. I suggested to Mic that he send the whole bit via fax to the judges chambers. I don't think it will neccessarily get him in front of the judge any faster, but it's about all we can do.