Happy Easter everyone!
So Ms. Perfect stood her ground about not letting ss come to church with us for Easter. That's alright though, at least she didn't screw Mic out of his court ordered visitation. She said that ss couldn't come with us, even though she promised him he could, because they were having family over for dinner.
It's not even her family...her family is on a cruise (I'm thinking this was the vacation they she was referring to last week when we had initially asked). Dinner included the grandparents of baby Cash Cow. Not that church lasts until dinner time anyway. She refused to take him to church, and to make the holiday even more special, she let him spend the night over at his friend's house the night before, and had the friend sleep over Saturday night! It wasn't even like she wanted to spend the time with him! She probably did it to make him feel better about being lied to. The added benefit being that then she doesn't have to concern herself with him. This is so wrong, and on so many levels.
Tonight, Mic only had to call 5 or 6 times to talk to ss. What is wrong with this woman? I have to wonder how much time she spends trying to think of new ways to use her kid as a pawn...as dense as she is, it must be the majority of her time.
SS is old enough now to know when he is being lied to, and it's an awful lot of the time when he's not with us. I don't know what to do for him anymore. We just tell him that this isn't supposed to be the norm--that's all we know to do.
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Yeah,
why is it that the Bm won't let the kid be with you but then doesn't spend time with him when she should? That happened here last Thur. The visitation schedule was a little messed up because of Easter. It turned out that last Thur. ss left here at 9am and came back at 6pm. Even though I was home all day that day, Bm made me drop ss off at a babysitter's house, then Bm's ex-boyfriend picked ss up from the babysitters' house later in the day and took him back to Bm's house. Then we picked him up at 6pm. Ss didn't even see Bm the whole day!!! What was the point of all of that except that SHE got to make the decisions as to where ss went on HER day.
Dawn
I don't know why
She insists on using him as a bargaining chip, quite frankly. There was an issue last week about it, where she wanted to swap the Wednesday night visitation for Easter Sunday. But she wouldn't provide anything in writing, proceeded to have ss call us and ask why we didn't want him to come for Easter, she told Mic that I was filling his head full of bs, and that she would never lie in front of her son (never mind the fact that she has MADE him lie to his father, just several weeks ago). I don't know what her problem is, except that she's totally miserable, and she wants everyone else to be miserable too.