Like most places, it has its ups and downs. You will find people with a ton of useful advice on here. You will find people who give good advice that kind of grates on you. You will find people that are just contrarians. Read everything and think on it. Take what you can use and leave the rest.
One of the best pieces of advice I was given on her offended me terribly at the time. I took a few days to think on it and then I realized that maybe the words weren't gently written but her message was spot on.
Welcome. This a safe place to hang out. You might get some good advice along the way. My relationships with SO and SGB-12 are different and better as a result of what I've learned here. Don't freak out if some poster hits the wine and posts silliness and another poster decides to lash out at everyone here because their own life stinks ... there are decades of cumulative experience to tap into and some very bright people who post here.
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Like most places, it has its
Like most places, it has its ups and downs. You will find people with a ton of useful advice on here. You will find people who give good advice that kind of grates on you. You will find people that are just contrarians. Read everything and think on it. Take what you can use and leave the rest.
One of the best pieces of advice I was given on her offended me terribly at the time. I took a few days to think on it and then I realized that maybe the words weren't gently written but her message was spot on.
Welcome. This a safe place to
Welcome. This a safe place to hang out. You might get some good advice along the way. My relationships with SO and SGB-12 are different and better as a result of what I've learned here. Don't freak out if some poster hits the wine and posts silliness and another poster decides to lash out at everyone here because their own life stinks ... there are decades of cumulative experience to tap into and some very bright people who post here.
Welcome! Tell us your story.
Welcome! Tell us your story.