So last week, DH decided that we would just give SD20 our 3rd car, instead of her buying a car. I am fine with that. He said that way she could keep the money she got and use that to pay car insurance etc. Again, all fine with me. Haven't really heard much about it since... other than MIL told me yesterday that SD20 lost her DL for the second time... so guess she won't be needing a car until she at least gets a new DL.

Last night DH and I were chatting and SD and the car came up. He said he was having reservations about giving her the car. I asked why. He said he just doesn't think she is mature/responsible enough right now. Y'all know I agree 1,000,000%!! I told him that Aunt J just told me last week, that SD got locked out of her apartment because she lost her key and went to Aunt J's and had to wait for her exBF (that she still lives with because they signed a year lease)to get home so she could get a new key made. DH said that's the SECOND time she's lost her key. They've been in the apartment for 4 months lol I asked him again why she is not working at the hot dog place that she was working at before. She raved about this job and how much they luurrrved her and how much money she made in tips etc and then all of the sudden, she says she can't work there anymore, because their schedule doesn't jive with her school schedule this year. I told DH that made zero sense. I looked up the restaurant website and they are open from 8 am until 9 pm.. she ain't in school all that time. And there is also weekends. So she's lying. Oh and Aunt J said SD applied for a job at Applebees, but did NOT put her waitressing experience at the hot dog joint on her application.. another red flag. Dh said that when she told him the nonsense about the schedule he had a gut feeling she was lying.

Sooooo he said he is calling the owner of the hot dog joint today and asking why SD20 is no longer working there. I know that there is a strong possibility that the owner won't tell him, but I'm hoping that she does. My guess is she got fired for stealing or she had some issue with someone and quit. Remember, her first job at Jack in the Box, she got accused of stealing and Uncle J had to go in and talk to the manager. Then SD ended up quitting anyway.

DH said if he finds out that SD lied to him, he is cutting her off. No car, no more money every month. He said he is tired of her lying and manipulating and that while these are all things that GBM and BM engrained in her, she is old enough now and had enough OTHER people trying to teach her the right things to do, that she should know better. He said he is also going to tell his friend that owns the sporting good store, where she worked last summer and for a couple of weeks during her winter break, to not hire her back. He doesn't want her stealing from him and values their friendship too much to put him in that position.

Stay tuned!! And keep your fingers crossed that this hot dog chick tells DH the truth!!