Soo today I am working a 12 hour shift and when i get home from my shity day my SD will be there back from BM's..... ...I hate that I dont look forward to going home when she is there....I went home last night and thought about this board....Thought about some of the stories i read and why it should be this way....I understand divorce is hard on children but it is also hard on the adults who are going through it...But we move on for our children. i understand they are young and have a hard time dealing with it but why does it have to be to such an extreme....If I think about it when parents get divorced it is usually a "I see it comming"..Which means these people are probably fighting alot, the home is not a great place to be for the children and just the unhappiness has to be a strain...So When the parents divorce I wish some children, like mine, think of it as my parents are not fighting "as much" anymore and the house can be a more peaceful place. yes fighting is still going to happen, more on some ends but overall there are days that are normal and happy...

I think of my issue, my children are great with my DH. They actually love him very much but they love there father also....Why can't it be like that for everyone and all bio families....Its sad that i hate going home because of SD...I hate it!!!! Guess everyone is different, just wish it could all be alot easier.... Sorry guess I am just venting out loud....Hope everyone has a great day...Look forward to everyones blog today...i am here till 7 so I'll be reading alot today....