LOL! I'm sorry...it's not funny but I get where your coming from. BM had the nerve to tell DH last night when he told her that she would be taking SS for her EOW visitation next weekend, that if she was going to be expected to keep taking this kid, she would be going for child support. She can't stand him! Note, the last 2 times she has taken him for 1 night...she sent him to stay with her boyfriend because he was on her nerves. HAH! like he doesn't irriate me!

Now she wants child support for exercising her visitaation with the kid that we have. She see's him maybe 2 days a month and you have to force that on her when he is crying to see her.

Oh WOW :jawdrop: to both of you that is so sad. I can't believe a mother would think that way about her kids. I know my kids got on my nerves plenty of times I think it is a normal part of being a mother. Most kids are annoying lots of the time but that is terrible!!!

HA....made me chuckle-NOBODY likes teenage GIRLS, NOBODY, even their own MOMS....I know my mom and I hated eachother-Im' sure she thought the same things BM was brave enough to admit LOL.

Seriously some teens DO think life revolves aroudn them-and adult women are entitled to make plans for their own lives without it revolving around demanding, bitch, moody, selfish little entitled bitches (that likely bm's and dad created but nonetheless)....so i had to chuckle and her outrageous honesty

SOME teens aren't so bad...but for the most part? I'm thinking that WILL be the time SD WILL be banned from my house, or hopefully to busy w/friends or getting knocked up to want to visit her dad.

Bio or not-there are times us parents want to run away from our own kids-and teenage girls? LOL-funny it's like 'you have her, no you, no you, no you' I don't mean to laugh but seriously though...your dh can be sanctimonious about this but you both probably feel the same way deep down on some days I'm guessing.

OMG, I am so sorry. I am blessed to have SD16 only every other week. And if it wasn't for that every other week, I'm sure that DH and I would be divorced by now. I don't get how a BM can be so unwanting of her own child. And that is such a horrible position for her to put you in as well.

Ok as a reminder on your last blog for other that are jumping to crucify bm's comments

"MY DH is great...Although he gives in all the time...i was happy to see this time he didn't....She is gone for 2 days, with her being punished i don't think we will have any drama because then she will have to come back to her punishment....Praying she stays with Bm all week till Monday...This weekend no SD, my son going to his dads and we have a weekend ALONE!!!!! All sorts of plans we have in effect...Hoping they all fall through without little miss drama!!!!
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See so you guys make plans also and hope you can accomplish them-maybe she wasn't expecting skid-or was but was hoping not...sometims some kids are just unlikable-given what she did to you i expect she treats her mom much the same? Just because you're blood doesn't mean you always like/love them-even your own kids sometimes-cruel and cold truth but it is what it is.

I remember the stories-your sd is a whacko nutjob emotional basket case and a bitch-you and your dh can't stand her....we can't blame bm for not standing her either here---i'm all for bm bashing but i'm not for hypocritical. The board has to have severe double standards on some issues. And a mom at odds w/her teenage kid is NOT abnormal.

Daisy, we have boys- I bet you more then one bm has thought that about her teenage girl but just hasn't admitted it.

THAT SAID-maybe bm is fed up and figures her dad can deal with it. Seems sd has learned the art of manipulating and playing parents against eachother- 'mom is bad' 'dad is bad'...and getting BOTH to dance to her whims-I can't blame you, bm or dh for beign sick and tired of it.

THAT SAID-both BM and your DH have to deal w/the nightmare-you shouldn't have to.

I get fed up like you-I came out yesterday and said to bf 'im ready to call it a wrap' which he asked meant what...I said time to do our seperate things w/the kids for the next few hrs.

Horrible little monster starts getting testy on Sundays 'because she has to go back to bad horrible bm' and starts bullying, getting attitude, sassing back-fighting w/the boys- So in essence I told him to TAKE his daughter and leave my home lol He actually did w/out getting upset, and then came back after dropping her off and took me out for a beer to watch some of the game. He knows i can't handle her.

Here I was yelling at both my son to get off his xbox live-at least the talking part-and sd to get off her phone which wasn't supposed to be in the house anyway-get this-she's talking with BOYS at 11 at night-I loudly tell her to get off the phone-there is no talkign to BOYS at 11 at night in MY HOME-they both pouted how unfair I was-she tried to convince me because her friends do it till 3 am-and they are teens. I said hell no you aren't teens, and there is no need to be on the phone or communicating live w/anyone after 11pm-even on wknds. She tried to lie that she was talking to friends. Her dad backed me up-but damn why isn't HE up in her grill about this?

OMG she is going to be HORRIBLE as a teen-if now is any indication. I can totally see her going to blows w/her mom because they have the EXACT same personality, neither backs down, and she'll want to come with dad...maybe I should wait to marry him till she's 18 then.