Well before Christmas BM got mad and said she changed SS1 bedtime to 8 instead of the normal 9 which would shorten our time an hour. Convieniently she changed it back after Christmas to 9. However when he is w/ us he is ready for bed at 8, sleeps the entire time hes here and as of recently hes been sticking his toy farmer up his shirt...hmm... I also know that BM has a new bf and SS sleeps in the same bed w/ her so it has me wondering what he is seeing. Also hes been saying 'cock' when he comes over. This just started right after she got the new BF.

BM has offically lost it. Normally we get the youngest every tues, thurs, sat, sun and overnight alternating sat, and holidays. She said she had places to go for the holidays and asked that we switch our thurs for wed. We agreed and asked that we could have a little extra time fri since she was taking him everywhere on thurs but she wouldnt budge. So we told her we wanted thurs then and she refuses. She says that she has places on fri too but how can she expect us to give her time to see everyone when she wont show us the same courtesy.