Ok... so... I need some honest answers here. I just want to know If I'm doing the right thing here. I am 29 and my hubby is 41. We met when I was 19. I never wanted to get involved with anyone who had already had kids and I had told him this. Well we ended up having kids and I ended up falling in love. After 4 years of dating and 2 boys, we tied the knot in 2008. We are still married but I am having a hard time WANTING to stay married. Why? Because of his damn kids!! I have sacrificed 10 years of raising them and being the only "mother" to them from the time they were 8 & 6 years old.