This is the question I keep asking myself. It has basically come down to that I should trust my man that he is doing the right thing as far as our relationship and the kids. I do believe he is a good man but not perfect, and neither am I. When we fight his solution is to separate, I always want to compromise and work it out. So is it true that sometimes it is just not a good fit ? I believe that anything can be worked out as long as you both put forth the effort.

So I decided to go get mani pedis with bd8. Dh is taking Sd12 and ss6 to see their mom at a fast food restaurant. I thought this would help to relieve some stress from all the drama.

Ok I know u ladies have to deal with BM calling the ex but what is too much. He was married to BM for 12 yrs, been divorced for 4. She calls him on a regular basis not everyday but enough. She did live in town but followed some guy to another state and hasn't seen her kids in 6 months. She calls and tells him her problems. So her boyfriend has once again beat her and she wants to move back into town. Always some kind of problem. When she lived here she never had any food for the kids, never had a ride to work , Wanted him to go with her to get a car.