Well i actually stumbled across this site on google. As i am sitting here in a tizzy over my stepdaughter googling away " how to not hate your stepchild, how to not be angry with your stepchild and everything else i could find, i found this site. Started reading some peoples comments and said OMG i am not going to hell alone, YAY!!! I will have people just like me there! LOL J/K. But honestly, i am very happy i found this site! It makes me not feel so alone and that others too feel my pain.