YSD15 finally put her schedule on the calendar. It's a bit confusing (DH said he gave her some feedback which I don't need to see details just when she arrives and leaves so we can plan).
Well, I take one look and say, "So YSD15 is with us MOST of the summer?!?!" Yeah no filter.
DH says she's with BM for three weeks at x place.
"Not according to this, it's only two weeks and the third week is noted 'undecided at mom or dad's.'"
Otherwise there's only a one week in August at BMs. And the only week I can potentially take off work, she's here. I'm going to be doing a lot with friends this summer.
I am feeling glad for DH, think that YSD is deciding her own schedule with basically no input from adults, and that DH loves this because she's choosing him, and that she's doing it because when school starts she's going to be at BMs most of the time.
But for me, I have no say, get to voice no opinion, and have no control over when happens in my home No chores no teen job no driving lessons, no camps nothing she just sits around most of the time and has started following DH EVERYWHERE.
If we have dinner on the deck she'll put her things at the table then go back inside and watch DH get his food, wait for him to go out, and THEN go back out on his heels. I asked her the other night why she went back in. She said something about DH being in there....ok but you CAN wait outside you know (I was inside cleaning up so it wasn't my presence that was the issue).
How old is she? SD used to be just like this (the following DH) and having to be constantly with him. It finally started getting better when she turned 16. She s less than 3 months from being 17 and things are finally somewhat normal.
Im just so glad DH and BM have never let SDcontrol when she is and isn't here!
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YSD15 finally put her
YSD15 finally put her schedule on the calendar. It's a bit confusing (DH said he gave her some feedback which I don't need to see details just when she arrives and leaves so we can plan).
Well, I take one look and say, "So YSD15 is with us MOST of the summer?!?!" Yeah no filter.
DH says she's with BM for three weeks at x place.
"Not according to this, it's only two weeks and the third week is noted 'undecided at mom or dad's.'"
Otherwise there's only a one week in August at BMs. And the only week I can potentially take off work, she's here. I'm going to be doing a lot with friends this summer.
I am feeling glad for DH,
I am feeling glad for DH, think that YSD is deciding her own schedule with basically no input from adults, and that DH loves this because she's choosing him, and that she's doing it because when school starts she's going to be at BMs most of the time.
But for me, I have no say, get to voice no opinion, and have no control over when happens in my home No chores no teen job no driving lessons, no camps nothing she just sits around most of the time and has started following DH EVERYWHERE.
If we have dinner on the deck she'll put her things at the table then go back inside and watch DH get his food, wait for him to go out, and THEN go back out on his heels. I asked her the other night why she went back in. She said something about DH being in there....ok but you CAN wait outside you know (I was inside cleaning up so it wasn't my presence that was the issue).
How old is she? SD used to be
How old is she? SD used to be just like this (the following DH) and having to be constantly with him. It finally started getting better when she turned 16. She s less than 3 months from being 17 and things are finally somewhat normal.
Im just so glad DH and BM have never let SDcontrol when she is and isn't here!
She's 15 and it started right
She's 15 and it started right before school ended about a month ago.