SDs come back from BM week back to nuts status. Home a wreck when I walk through door. DP steps on a couch pillow instead of picking it up. Then is irritated at me for saying something. Nope, doesn't work like that. Pick. It. Up.

Sd11 was actually ok so surprisingly no complaints with her.

SD9 refused to clean up dinner plate (her friend did so exactly perfect). So her plate ended up on her pillow. She then tried putting it back on the table later and walking away. Nope, didn't work. Dropped food on floor in process of schlepping plate to kitchen. That ended up on her nightstand.
She had a gross snot encrusted nose (I can hear she has a cold which she denied) and didn't wash her face. Asked a little later then did so after her friend backed me up. Thank you peer pressure!

Then she never brought her backpack in from outside so guess who isn't helping her make lunch for school tomorrow.
DP is going to freak in the morning because of that but my hard rule is no lunch bag in kitchen when you get home, no lunch help because I do that first thing, not at 8:30 pm during my only 'me time.'

DP is in process of ice cream dispersal rather than actually doing anything.
I am upstairs with a glass of wine, my phone and a book. Good on me!