So last night, after SD15 arrives and dinner is being considered between them, DH starts talking to her like she's 5. Seriously I could not handle it. Then he starts asking me silly questions like I'm in on it. WTF? I answered him normally, he countered (because God forbid I have an opinion when SD is here), so I said, ok then never mind and I opted out.

Tonight I want a good takeout dinner from a place I love. I ordered and paid. Since SD15 is so picky and won't like any regular thing on the menu I ordered something from the small plates section for her. DH was just telling her allllll about this place and asked her if she knew where it was and started describing it. We live in a small town and even so, SD knows nothing because she never goes anywhere or pays attention to anything around her. I was just not having it and said to him after he prompted her a couple times, "DH she doesn't know where anything is." He chuckled and asked he if she wanted to go pick it up with him. Nope.....he wants her to go then tell her they will go. FFS it's always a choice and then he wonders why she doesn't know stuff or places here.

Then he starts talking up the food. No she's never eaten there, again YES I got her something she will like and he kept on talking up this wonderful place like she's 8 and going to get exited about it. She doesn't ever get exited about food! I finally had enough and said, "DH I got her something she'll like, nothing else there she will, that's all and if she doesn't like it she can make something else."

They now left to the yard so good. The coddling of a 15yo is driving me nuts. She's 15 with no responsibility, give her some. Treat her like a 15 yo. It's like he was scared she'd be upset we are ordering dinner.