I found this site yesterday and I have to say it has saved my sanity...I woke up quite literally a gibbering wreck after my unsuccessful attempt to disengage for Easter! I set up an account today and it is like finding a 24 hour help line...the skids are back tomorrow and Wednesday, DH has vowed to support me but I have built things up for so long I am terrified...hopeful with the help of this community I can get through. ...Jesus it's like an alien invasion but this time I am Will Smith!!