My DH...the man who avoids confrontation at all costs. My big teddy bear who buries his head in the sand and rather eat poo than confront anything, let alone BM2. He did it, he told BM2 where to poke it yesterday!

She came over to our house yesterday around noon. Both DH and I were at work but she was taking SS14 out for the day. I know, I hated it too, but at least she's visiting.

It didn't last long. I was still at work but DH was home and she brought SS back around 5pm. I don't know how the conversations came about but she started to cast out feelers. She must've pumped SS for info while they were out. Anywho, the most important of what was said went something like this:

BM2: So, I heard that you gave Cookies an eternity ring? (It was our 5 year anniversary on the 10th)
DH: Yes, I did. And...???
BM2: No response.

A bit later, BM2 brought up relationships and blah blah blah and how she went to a pub the previous night and was supposedly hit on by a nice soldier guy (run, dude, run!):

BM2: Anyway, all I want is a man that really loves me.
DH: *laughs* But you HAD that...and it still wasn't good enough for you. YOU threw it all away...and now that man is in love with another woman.

At one point, a neighbour came by with a package they took in for us. While DH was getting that, he heard BM2 walk further into the house. When he went in, she was standing right by the anniversary cards that were still set on the bookshelves. Nosey cow.

That wh*re totally cast out the bait to see if DH would bite! Instead of a bite, she got a nice big ol' bucket of ice cold reality thrown in her face.

I am so proud of DH for finally confronting her. He said he wasn't nasty but she kept insisting on casting out feelers so he just told her very calmly and matter-of-fact how things are. She needed to hear it from him for a long time now.

I'm sure she'll still give out crazy but I am proud of my DH and he shall be handsomely rewarded