I have 4bs and 1ss ...my ss has from day one been a monster to me and my family... he has physically abused my bio kids,stole my vehicle, credit cards, phones and more, he depanted my cuzns daughter, made sex jokes at me and my mother and his bio patrnl gma sticks up for him!!!! Idk how my marriage has survived!!! I been looking for help but no1 helps if charged arent pressed... in the last 9mons my husbands fam disowned my husband because he finally has my back.. the hardest thing I've had to deal with lately is finding out that for the last yr 13 yr old ss has been sexually abusing my 4yr bs in every way imaginable!!! My husband called cops on the spot when ss admitted it.. ss feels he shouldn't be punished for his actions he feels we are to blame because gma has it stuck in his head... bs also states when ss gma was living in our home shr knrw and would just tell ss to go to his room and he was grounded!!! Really?? How can someone keep it from a parent and law says its ok nothing illegal about her hiding it allowing it to continue?? How do i keep from taking care of it on my own sence law says nothing they can do?? I thought there was a law saying if you know of something like that and hide it you are just as liable...