Bm has a new boyfriend.

Good.

Now she won't even return DH's phone calls when we are trying to get ahold of her for something substantial.

Good.

The girls left half their stuff at their mom's this weekend(as usual) and we of course needed to go pick it up (as usual)and her house was all locked up.

Good.

I like it this way. I like that we suck again and she's ignoring all contact. DH is a little put out (it is kinda a pain in the ass when you're used to being able to call for EVERY little thing)....but me? I'm friggin' stoked baby.

I hope she stays this way for a while. I like it soooo much better. I like this neutral, lots of boundaries, middle of the bipolar swing, centered place. It's like heaven to me. Seriously. She doesn't HATE us and she doesn't LOVE us either. It's right in the middle...maybe more like what, purgatory? That's fine too.

I'm doin' the happy dance....cha.cha.cha.

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wooohooo for you!

What a nice fantasy for me to dream of later tonight. Thank you for sharing your good news!

I can so picture you doing

I can so picture you doing that, too. Maybe we should get you some of those little thumb cymbal things. I can't remember what they're called. I'm so fried with ACLS stuff right now. This is not the same guy she was planning on moving in with like two weeks ago, right? She moves on pretty fast....

To every thing there is a season.

Oh I was...

No it's a new guy. Look out because he lives in your neck of the woods. She's comin' to your town!!!!

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley

HAHAH CG

I always love it when BM finds another victim...... }:)

I'm right there with you CG

My skids BM is the same when she has a new boyfriend. Things are bliss, well for me anyway. Skids and BF are abit shitty, oh well they'll get over it. I'm hoping her lastest boyfriend sticks around for my sake if he decides to leave her like the last one I may even bribe him to stay, just for the piece ;).

I may even join in on your happy dance if I may?

Of course!

I always encourage dancing.

I, myself, am not above bribing either. I haven't met him yet though.

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley

Congrats on Peace

I would like to get in on your happy dance as well..........

I wish we had it that good. I almost want to send her an email with free dating time on E-Harmony while we have sd for christmas and the summer.

Dang - if she got a man - maybe she would stop acting irrational for no reason.

She met him on EHarmony...

or whatever dating service she subscribes to.

BE VERY CAREFUL!

She met the last one on the site and they tend to throw the mentally unbalanced together and that can lead to DISASTER. A bipolar/BPD and a narcissist is NOT a good combination. They kept fighting over who was king.

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley

LMAO

FUNNY!

That's funny

I met DH on yahoo personals and we always said we never would have met on Eharmony because they try to match you in every way. So maybe that's why they think two people with personality disorders would have just one more of those umpteen "dimensions" of personality in common!

Here it is in their own words!

"eHarmony is the only relationship site on the web that creates compatible matches based on 29 Dimensions that are scientifically proven to predict happier, healthier relationships. To help you better understand these dimensions, we've grouped them into Core Traits and Vital Attributes.

Core Traits are defining aspects of who you are that remain largely unchanged throughout your adult life. Vital Attributes are based on learning and experience, and are more likely to change based on life events and decisions you make as an adult.

These key areas paint a powerful portrait of who you are at the deepest level and form the basis for how our patented Compatibility Matching SystemTM finds singles that are truly right for you."

SO THAT'S what they're calling personality disorders now? DIMENSIONS of Personality????

Maybe they meant to say DEMENTED PERSONALITY?

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!!!

"Om Tare Tutare Ture Mama Ayurpunye Jnana Putin Kuru Svaha"
~Sita Tara Mantra

I'm telling you!

At least they lump them together rather than lump them with the normal people....

Her record for staying in a relationship with someone (other than DH) had been just a little over 6 mos. Until the narcissist. That lasted over two years...she's introduced SEVEN to the girls in 4 years. SEVEN. She's lived with three.

She's AWESOME.

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley