My H #1 reaction is giving me the cold shoulder. I hate it. It's been going on for so long now that I feel trapped.

I know this is wrong and it is absolutely not OK for him to do that because it totally shuts down all communication, distances us, and makes me furious.

The problem with ME is that I ignore it and try to keep the "peace." I give him space. But then when I do, he turns it around and guilts me.

MY problem is that I have felt "guilty" for so long that I am at the end of my rope.