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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 04/05/2024 - 1:55pm

I am feeling pretty good right now.

Just changed the password to my netflix account. In checking the devices logged in, I noticed powersulk has been logging in every day, even after I had alerted her to me shaving down to only 2 devices and can she please log out. I have not mentioned this to her, or husband. Shes with Toxic Troll this week. If she mentions it, while with us, Ill just let her know its ONLY 2 devices and those 2 are our TVs which she is welcome to use.

It sure feels great. No more supporting skids that are unrepentant and unappreciative. She can piggy back off someone else...

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Submitted by CastleJJ on Fri, 04/05/2024 - 2:06pm

Make sure you "kick out" any devices you don't want on your account. Sometimes changing the password doesn't automatically kick users off and make them re-enter passwords.  

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Submitted by AgedOut on Sat, 04/06/2024 - 6:51am

practice your reaction. "well I know I told her w/ enough time for her to sign into her mom's." then .... let. it. go. 

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Submitted by MissK03 on Sat, 04/06/2024 - 10:27am

TBH this whole Netflix thing is getting petty IMO. You have posted multiple times about booting her. Focus more on the bigger picture of your life with your husband and what you truly want...

If you're downgrading Netflix fine but I see this as the only control you have with punishing SD. IMHO you really need to start forgetting about these people and move on. 

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Submitted by SteppedOut on Sun, 04/07/2024 - 9:49am

I came to mention this. 

There have been multiple times you have posted about "kicking her off for good". 

Make it stick this time if it is a big deal to you... and, I get it, she can't treat you like crap and expect you to give her things. 

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Submitted by ESMOD on Tue, 04/09/2024 - 6:12am

i agree.  It's kind of a point I was trying to make last time.  Clove... you do this to punish.... or to make a noticeable sign of your displeasure with her... but while it may irritate her... in the end, it's really not getting to the meat of the issue which is your life in general with these people (including your SO) that don't have your best interests at heart.  

It feels like everyone will be happy as long as YOU wrap yourself around an axle for them.. you see things as going better... when it's basically just a lull in the drama.. but like most situations it's just temporary.

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 04/09/2024 - 10:36am

Im being petty, and Im focusing on bigger picture with husband, and what I truly want as well as downgrading netflix. 

So far, as of 11:00 4/5, Ive heard NOTHiNg of it. Ive been streamlining all my different accounts, not just this one. 

And yes, these toxic people are only in my head momentarily.

Powersulk is on her 3rd (4th) try for permitt to drive. yeay!

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Submitted by Lillywy00 on Sat, 04/06/2024 - 10:49am

Good! 
 

I had trouble bringing myself to add Disneyland Dad's ferals to my Amazon movie account. 
 

I added them anyways to pacify that dude but the moment he pissed me tf off coddling them, passively parenting them, and enabling their lazy disruptive behaviors every week ... I revolted and told him I was deleting Prime Movies 

Secretly got Paramount+ through my premium Walmart account. 
 

These ferals and Disney parents ain't lazing around all weekend on my dime! 

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Submitted by Harry on Sat, 04/06/2024 - 11:28am

Toxic Troll Going to do now that you took her netflix away?   You know Toxic Troll is using the Netflix's   You are not supporting TT.  If DH saids anything tell him you are not supporting a kid who doesn't like you, or supporting TT.  He free to get a second job and pay for Netflix for everyone. 

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Submitted by Oldfool on Sun, 04/07/2024 - 4:41am

Miss K03 hit the nail on the head. I had my partner's two eldest kids and the BRAT taking the mickey with my Sky Store. The eldest kids and the BRAT used to change the TV channels to their own liking even when me and my grandchildren were there first. I told them off very badly and to have basic MANNERS to no avail. The BRAT used to order movies without permission and it charged me. I repeatedly told them to STOP!!! It was done once too often and I screamed down the house. I told the BRAT (aka Stinky not to go onto Sky Sore again). I also had problems with Stinky when I used to record programmes. She used to DELETE them and not say anything to me. When I asked what happened they all went quiet...

I was NEVER reimbursed for the films and videos ordered without my permission and I refused to let the BRAT keep any...

In the end I banned my partner's eldest son from my home and my partner sees the idiot away from the house. His daughter does come sporadically but I dont interact much with her as too much damage and disrespect had been shown to me in the past and I will never forgive her.

In respect of Stinky she is a teenager now but I do not interact with her either...just hi and bye...

CLove I have followed your posts and you gave ME good advice....you need to make up your mind about your marriage that appears to be in the gutter.

TT is nothing to do with you and keep her antics out of your life. Just ignore her

Feral Forger is toxic and you were right to cut her out of your life and away from your home.

Powersulk put your liberty at stake by making false accusations about you. An apple does not fall far from the tree. I would NEVER engage or support her in any way. She has 2 parents and you are not one of them.

Your husband does not appear to be supportive of you and has on the blinkers (like my partner did at the time).

I have given my partner an almighty verbal blasting and he finally realised that his eldest two kids and the Brat did not have manners to me. He said that he does not invite his friends to the house due to their past disrespectful behaviour. Obviously I think he must have spoken to someone else who gave him a verbal blasting too. When any of the old frineds do come to the house they look sheepish as they know I have a LONG memory...

You need to get your ducks in a row to LEAVE YOUR PARTNER once and for all. His kids DO NOT LIKE YOU. Cutting off Netflix is nothing. Your partner will probably pay for it for TT and Co to use it from his funds.

Good luck with whatever decision you make...nuff said.......

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Submitted by la_dulce_vida on Sun, 04/07/2024 - 10:35am

Bravo!!

I'm so glad you finally did that. My XBF has been watching my Amazon Prime Video account and I had no idea until he rented a movie. I shut that down, logged all devices out and changed my password. I also canceled my Starz account, just in case. The audacity!!