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Submitted by cloudySM on Wed, 08/06/2014 - 5:30pm

I've been noticing my belongings have been tampered with. I go to take a swig of my coke out of the bottle and all I taste is water. I go to wash my hair and my shampoo bottle is half filled with water. So it looks like someone has been using and drinking my stuff and trying to pour water in it to cover it up. My lipstick that was sitting on my dresser clearly has had the top layer scrapped off. I confronted my stepdaughters about using my stuff without my permission. I let them know if I catch anyone doing that there will be consequences. I was heated but I did not raise my voice once. DH wants to call me into the room like a damn kid and raise his voice. He called me petty AF and told me not to go around accusing his kids without proof. Making lame excuses like maybe the soda was just flat like I cant tell the difference between soda and water. I am not a child and I refuse to be talked to as a child so watch who you are talking to and how you talk to me. He rolled his eyes and stomped off like a little boy man.

This morning I hear the shower running. I walk past the bathroom door. The door is open and no one is in there. I see SD12 sitting on her bed text messaging . I asked her if she left the water on. She said she will get in a minute she was waiting for it to get hot. Um no your not going to sit on your bed leaving my water running 5 or 10 minutes. That is so wasteful. She wants to huff and puff at me. Walks her butt to the bathroom and slams the door in my face. DH doesn't see what the big deal is but he will "talk to her". Its been hours no talk has happened yet.

Its dinner time and everyone is looking at me. So you treat my like crap and expect me to slave over the stove for you. Nope I'm good. DH says I need to chill. I don't know what crawled up his butt but it better crawl back out soon.

I'mm dealing with my own medical problems right now. I need rest. But does that stop any of them from being loud as hell no. Well guess who is sitting in a nice hotel room venting on steptalk sipping champagne on her own dime. I need a night to myself and I really don't care what anyone feels like about that at this point. He knows where I am but I wont be answering my phone. Obviously how I feel means shit. They don't need me.

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Submitted by hereiam on Wed, 08/06/2014 - 5:37pm

(((hugs)))

Next time, do it on HIS dime. He can also pay the entire water bill, replace your makeup, shampoo, and whatever else they mess with.

He can cook for them, clean up after them, and hope that they will be there for him in his old age.

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Submitted by IslandGal on Wed, 08/06/2014 - 9:42pm

You go girl!! I had a huge grin on my face when I got to the end of your post - love that you took yourself off to a lovely hotel! That moronic DH of yours needs to teach his kid a lesson in manners and respect.

I reckon you ought to stay put for at least a week - and send him the entire bill. Maybe that'll wake the twit up.

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Submitted by luchay on Wed, 08/06/2014 - 10:03pm

OMG what is with these men not respecting us enough?

WHY is it ever ok for these kids to just take/use our stuff without asking, and to be rude to us???? Petty?? My arse it's petty.

It's about personal space, respect, privacy and so many other things apart from the damn bottle of soft drink. It's about them being taught in every possible way that it is ok to treat us like crap, take anything they fancy and that they rule the world.'

BAD BAD parenting your OH.

Love the idea of the fancy hotel, but I agree - HE should be paying for it.

Also love the ideas of messing with them }:)

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 08/07/2014 - 10:33am

Ok first off, I thought the title of your blog said that your DH said you were PRETTY AF. LOL Then after reading, I was like, oh yeah, should have known better. Sad

My DH does the same crap. I HATE it when SD uses my stuff without asking. DH's response is always "Well if she was your daughter, you wouldn't care" Yes I would! I don't like ANYONE using/taking my shit without asking! So I had to resort to hiding my things. Of course that backfires like last night I wasted 15 minutes of my life trying to find my nail polish remover, because I hid it so well, I couldn't remember where I put it! GAH!#$%^ I should not have to hide me shit in my own house!!!! but alas I do it to keep my sanity.

oh and the excuses are so ridiculous! A couple of weeks ago SD16 went with DH to small city for his pain management appointment (why I have no idea??) So anyway she is posting on Twitter that she is in large city that is not even remotely, by any stretch of imagination close to small city where she actually is?? And not just one post, multiple! "Big City today" "Lunch in Big City" "Dad is letting me drive in Big City" So I tell DH about it and ask why the fuck she would lie about something so stupid. Wait for it.............. DH said "Oh, she probably just got confused, doesn't know the difference between small city and big city." I called his ass out. Stop DH, just stop. She is smart 16 year old girl and CERTAINLY knows the difference, stop making lame ass excuses for her! *****crickets****

So freaking maddening!!!!