hey guys im new to this site but was searching for answers and this came up. I am dating a man who has two children an 8 year old son and 13 year old daughter. We have been together for two years but the kids just found out about us 5 months ago when he moved in. I have an 8 year old son also from a previous marriage. The boyfriend and i have a 6 month old daughter together. I thought we would all be one big happy family but boy was i wrong!