So I'll try and condense this the best I can. My hubby knows I have been feeling very stressed having the skids here and so when BM called and asked if she could pick the skids up early , i secretly was jumping for joy....let me stop it was not secretly... I literally Jumped For Joy!, well I constantly am trying to determine her real motives when she asks for them ( she never wanted them in the first place , but really likes the CS payment). So Hubby and I will be having family visiting from out of town and they all want to see skids so we told BM that she could pick them up the day after Christmas ( they were supposed to stay through new years) . She BLOWS UP saying she had already purchased tickets for 12/15 and that tickets after Christmas were way too expensive(her real motive). hubby asked her why she didn't ask him about dates before she purchased tickets, she starts balling about how she can't afford it , mind you the children have been with us since October and hubby is paying her 1000 dollars a month even while they are here, but somehow she cant afford Tickets?!Hubby told her that she had to figure it out and she could pick them up on the 26th. i hear her blubbering on the phone and find myself smiling to her agony....anyone else get a sick satisfaction to BM's pain?