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One victory and one question

carolbrady71's picture

Well I can't believe it actually happened, but Hagatha actually found a place to live and signed off on the papers to sell the house. I haven't seen DH smile so widely since the divorce settlement was finalized.
Even better--she moved ten miles away, not too far for his kids to commute, but definitely less convenient for the "dropping in at all hours" thing.
WOOOOOT!

And now for the question, Hagatha has been struggling with her weight for some time, and is prone to fad dieting. SD is wanting to be supportive of BM (not a bad thing), so she has joined her mother's latest diet quest--Ketogenic. The concern DH and I have is that SD is very athletic, has no measurable extra body fat. She has only been doing it for a week, but has already suffered a loss of energy and headaches. Anyone have any experience with non-overweight 12 years olds on Keto diets?

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not your momma's picture

Sounds like she has me to flu. She needs to up her salt intake. Pickle juice should help clear it up.

B22S22's picture

I'm not sure keto diets are good for kids, but I can tell you (because I do a low-carb sort of thing) is that the loss of energy and headaches is the body's way of craving carbs (especially if she ate a LOT of them prior to doing this). Also, she may have some muscle cramps -- mostly legs, because unless she supplements she will take in lower amounts of magnesium and potassium.

Veritas's picture

Actually I do...I work with women over 45 who have physiological fat loss issues and a ketogenic diet has worked very well for most of them, not just to lose weight but for healing the body in many areas. Several of them do incorporate this higher fat way of eating for the rest of their family with good results.

I also use this way of eating therapeutically with my clients that are working through Lyme and Mold issues and have no need to lose weight. Having said that, the most important thing that comes into play with diet is: you should eat the best way for your body. Period.

Diets, per say, are garbage because they don't support a person finding the right way to eat because they are not designed for the individual, they are designed for the masses. Whether she eats keto, low carb, vegan, etc, it is just eating and it may or may not suit her. Keto is not harmful, though, as any human being has the ability to run on fats as opposed to running on glucose. The body will always make enough glucose to support the brain via the liver. No different then eating raw vegan benefits some people but not all. Again, it comes down to what the individual body needs.

Incorporating a ketogenic diet does come with some initial energy loss and headaches as the body builds a way to burn fat for energy and yes, as mentioned above, sea salt works great for helping to balance the needs of the body.

Most important: your SD should thrive from her food choices and switching up macronutrients from one way of eating to another will always bring an initial stress to the body, even if she were to stop eating a bunch of junk food and started eating real food.

Gwynnafaye's picture

I did keto for a little while. I lost 9 pounds in 2 weeks. While that part was great, the way it made me feel was terrible. I also couldn't drink beer which I wasn't willing to give up long term, so I'm back to a lowerish carb/low fat way of eating. Have her drink some pickle juice and take some magnesium and potassium supplements.

carolbrady71's picture

I agree that children without weight issues shouldn't be on diets, it is a toughie in this case because I do believe it is something that BM and DH have total responsibility to address with each other for the sake of their daughter. Personally, I've lost around a hundred pounds over the period of two years and have maintained that loss by eating less crap and moving around more. I really hate to see a perfectly healthy teenage girl (who has a healthy control streak) get obsessed with food intake--I see a perfect storm for an eating disorder on the horizon.

As much as I can't stand the lady personally, I have no desire to encroach upon her territory as a mom. I did tell SD that while it wasn't my business, I was concerned that she didn't have any body fat to burn, and that you need a certain amount of "good carbs" to maintain athletic performance. I let it drop after that.
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Pickle juice--thank you!! SD has been bummed cause I guess the diet restricts bananas, which was a go-to potassium boost for her.