so yesterday I was becoming very annoyed with my SD13... she wasnt doing anything that bad, but I was getting tired of her NEVER washing her hands before she opened the fridge/got into the cookies, etc. I have to tell her every single time. DO NOT tell me that "is what 13 year olds do" BULLSHIT are you telling me her memory does not work? anyway....not the point.

so I leave to go to hastings and look through books for awhile, and i stopped and had some lunch. i get home after the scheduled time that my hushand usually takes her home (which was only like 2-3 hours after i left the house) and they are gone....

so im waiting around for him to get home (usually takes him 2 hours to take her home) he doesnt come home for like 4.5 hours. i call him and ask him where he is, he says he was at a BAR (his friend owns it) im pissed and hang up

normally i wouldnt care that he went to see his buddies. whatever, im not a control freak. but i can tell he only did it because I left the house earlier in the day (he was working on our remodeled bathrooom at the time)

we start arguing and he's telling me "well apparently you cant be around my daughter so you have to leave.... what, i cant leave too?"

YES he can leave and hang out with people... but the point is i knew he only did it to get back at me or something.

so now its monday and we are not speaking. what a GREAT effing weekend i had..... i cant help it if his daughter annoys the shit out of me. did i really do something wrong???? i just left to go hang by myself for a couple hours!!!!