For many years I worked to entertain DH's tremendous group of sociall dysfuction--to make certain everything was perfectly done for them.  I spent lots of money, worked weeks ahead of time and never received as much as a thank you by anybody. I grew weary of my own insane behavior-- especially after the insults started being hurled directly to me right in my own home and social media with daddeee saying nothing, his usual self.

It took me too long, but eventually I suggested we "share" the worship celebrations among the entitled broad. I was met with the rationale their houses were too small to do that.  This year SD decided to do it in her home that was too small when I was working my arse off.  (I disengaged from the whole mess years ago). DH went to the annual service this year in the too small house, again, not saying a single word about the known lie.  I asked him had she increased the size of her too small house, he said no. No further comment.

Here is the good thing, I was not there....but how could DH be okay with this?

On the other hand, should just one more lie bother me from any of them?  He is scared to death of his own daughter....whom I will never be around again with him....you can see why.

You guys are the experts, what are your thoughts?  What would you do? DH will never change so I have said nothing more, and I figure as long as I do not have to deal with being around her,  maybe I should keep it that way.