UPDATE: when your SO never has your back!

Well ladies the debate continues and his solution is "fine you don't want to be a role model to her so fine. I will send her to her mothers regularly and you can't say shit about it"....OK SO.....LOL!!

Halla...fricken..luejah.....your going to get her out of the house so I don't have to be around her??? Trust me you won't hear a word from me. Oohh I just got punished!!! Hahaha. Do it....I dare you??

If her BM will even take her. She don't want to put up with her shit either hahaha! SO you are a funny man, BM didn't even call for Easter or her school break right now. When was the last time BM called to see her??? Christmas?? Oh yeah for half a day to Knott's then back home that was enough.

canigetabm's blog
Log in or register to post comments

Comments

It's awesome when they refuse

It's awesome when they refuse to understand we cannot be role models for their spawn when they refuse to be our partners, be a united front and back us up every damn time.

Sigh......some men are jerks.

I know I try so hard to

I know I try so hard to explain it to him and he just doesn't get it.

Like when she is crying I left her out why didn't you say: would you like to invite someone to lunch that tweets they hate you, or I f'ing hate my stepbrothers or she is nothing to me? Would you like to pay for someone's lunch that ignores you? Then SD why do you EXPECT this from canigetabm?...no its poor SD and you are mean and how could you treat MY child like that.....

I'm just like WTF?

You cannot be a role model to

You cannot be a role model to someone that is not willing to accept you, respect you, or spend a second of time with you. If a person does not look up to someone but instead looks down upon them as if that person is beneath them YOU CANNOT BE their role model.

Here is the definition: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/role%20model

Here is a comment by someone that hits the nail on the head. You need to tell SO exactly this!!!!
Mike Slater · Douglas S Freeman High School, Richmond, VA
"What everyone must realize, especially celebrities, is we do not get to choose if we are a role model or not. Only the people watching us choose whether we are that role model. The only thing we get to choose is whether we are a good role model or a bad role model. Until everyone realizes this, we have a lot of trouble."