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Stupid BM

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Stupid BM went out drinking last Friday and had her purse stolen so she calls MY husband and wants him to help. He told her to call the police and hung up. Good DH. She's been tramping around more lately since her alimony is ending in August. She did have someone who asked her to marry him a few years ago but she told him she wouldn't get married because she didn't want to lose her alimony. He made good money and told her she didn't have to work but could if she wanted to.

O/T working from home

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Some of you work from home, I was recently laid off and am looking for ideas to get the job search going again. Anyone have any ideas of a legit site to work from home? I used to know the name of a site that didn't pay much but heck it was extra cash.

Cell phone issue

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This is about my own kid not a skid. Daughter 19 who has a 3 year old was cut off my moms cell plan by my mom during one of their numerous fights. I added her to our plan to help her out. She's being a typical brat who thinks she's entitled to stuff just because she exists. Now that her and my mom aren't fighting they talk constantly, I have the phone records to prove it, she's even shared the wonderful things my mother (who I stopped talking to because everything wrong in her life is my fault and I look so much like my father she divorced etc.) says about me.

Unbelievable

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I'm actually ticked off at some on this site. I came here when I had issues with my skids and even took advise with my own kids. I can honestly say I've walked away with a lot of wisdom here and felt we all share a common bond. A lot of us have horrible BM's, skids who steal, lie or do whatever they can to cause drama, disney dads who overspend the budget buying love, really horrible stuff. Recently I've just become overly upset about a skid who isn't being treated fairly, a skid who is being punished for things a bio can get away with. I really have a hard time with that.

It's been so long since I've written anything here

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Well Youngest SS has been on his own for almost 6 months. Husband texts with him from time to time and I dropped Thanksgiving dinner off to him at work. It's the only time I've seen him since he left here. He was polite but quiet.
Oldest SS recently traded in the truck my husband had co signed on and bought a new car so my husbands off the note now Smile Oldest SS seems to be doing well. He's in college and working and paying his own way.

My crazy life

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I'm sad to say I'm talking about my biological family here and not steps.
My daughter 19 lives with my mom and happens to have a 3 year old child.(She had him young)
My daughter has been trying to help out around the house while holding down a job and going to college. I know my daughter and I know she's not perfect and I'm sure she shoulders some of the burden of the argument but my mom is trying to control her and I just can't seem to do anything about it.
My mom wanted her to get a job, she gets one and now my mom says she's not home enough and needs to quit.

Things I and the adult Skids learned

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At one time, not too long ago, I hated my youngest SS. I've come to the conclusion that he was only trying to do what he wanted whenever he wanted because his parents allowed it. Both his parents were, and still are, so angry at each other that neither of them care if they damage their children as long as they get back at each other.
Those of you who know my story know I had a 19 year old who wanted to sleep all day, make messes, and play video games all while having his hand out for money.

Screwed up Society

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Normally I don't post much but something really disturbed me today so I'm going to have at it. Someone posted their husband or boyfriend can't remember which has his 12 year old daughter in the bathroom with him when he's going number 2. This is wrong on sooo many levels but the poster believes(d) that its because the mother is nuts. Ok so the mother is nuts I'm not debating that, but there is no excuse her father doesn't know well enough to tell a 12 year old girl who is probably going through puberty or will soon start that its not ok for her to be in there with him.

Peaceful Day

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I am home by myself, husband is at work, it's been so peaceful since SS has been gone. I cleaned the house today and a lot of thoughts popped in my head.The one that struck me the most was I don't miss cleaning the urine up off the floor in the bathroom. I know men dribble and can get stuff on the seat or near the toilet, I'm not talking about the normal dribbling I'm talking about SS out and out pissing on the floor no where near the toilet because he was mad about something. This is something animals do to mark their space.

O/T Failure to launch

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I've been noticing lately I have 2 co workers who are in there late 20's both still live at home with mom and dad. They both complain about their parents but neither will move on their own. Both make over 35k a year but both claim that they can't afford to move out. I know for a fact both blow their money on themselves. Ok that's none of my business but my question is where did we go wrong? When did it become acceptable to freeload off parents when this generation is pushing 30 years of age?

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