The dreaded "we need to talk"...

BM says it about once a week. So far she hasn't actually followed through with it. She is picking SS up from school today. First time she has seen him since early last week. She text him once this weekend, I don't think she realizes that SS makes excuses not to talk to her when she makes her 1 phone call a week. "I'm in the car can't talk". He wasn't in the car. He was in his room, but himself at that exact time.

Looks like she and the meth man have split up.... again. They are no longer "FB Friends" and he posted "I've got one less problem without ya..." many women "liked" his post.

She is going to tell me that she wants SS to stay with her again. Nothing about her situation has changed. NOTHING. She thinks because her room mates moved out that it's ok to keep SS there. She still has no internet. Most of his classes have online homework. She is still being evicted (can't believe she is still there) still has NO job, NO money... oh and NO COMMON SENSE. Not to mention, SS has no interest in going over there.

My answer will be "you need to talk to DH about it, this isn't a decision for me to make".

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My mouth literally dropped

My mouth literally dropped when I read that. :jawdrop: They got MARRIED??? Wow...

YUP, we know the cycle!

YUP, we know the cycle! dumb@$$ is still married to her ex, Mr Potato Head. she was with New D!*k until two yrs ago. according to N.D, he was with her for 7 years. but she was still living w/ Mr.P.H. until about 4 yrs ago or so. and sometimes she'd leave ND's house (with a call TO the kids "i'm leaving ND's to come get you), pick up MrPH, and show up with him to pick the kids up.

according to the grapevine, MrPH is mainlining. but it was DealerDude who posted two of her three bonds. oh and did i mention she's still freaking married?

oh the drama makes my head spin.

NO, BS, her situation has not changed, as know u're very very acutely aware of. it's just entered the next phase of the pattern. your planned answer is fabulous.

Ladies, I am seriously

Ladies, I am seriously waiting for the day (and it may be real soon) that she changes her name on FB to his last name. I can't wait! I get all giddy like a kid thinking about it haha.

I told my girlfriend the other day, after reading her FB post of "Today is the day I start fresh... blah blah blah... I'm getting my shit together... blah blah blah". If I had a penny for every time I've heard her say that, I wouldn't be playing the Mega Millions anymore. Wouldn't need it.

So, he posts that they broke up, and this morning SHE posts lyrics to Concrete Blonde "joey"... basically, she's sorry and wants to try again... :sick: "But if I seem to be confused
I didn't mean to be with you. And when you said I scared you Well, I guess you scared me too"...

Lame.

I have a feeling she will drop SS off tonight, and not even come to the door. That's been her M.O. lately when she says she "wants to talk". It's like she has an "I miss my kid" moment, tells us she wants him back... and then when it comes to talking to us about it in detail, she suddenly realizes that means she has to TAKE CARE OF HIM... she backs out. Whatever lady, back ALL THE WAY OUT PLEASE!!