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BSgoinon's picture

Two missed calls on DH's phone at 3:57 AM from BM. No message, and OF COURSE he didn't answer. But... REALLY?

Freakin tweaker.

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robin333's picture

I'm so glad SS is no longer staying with her. She's desperate for attention. She doesn't call SS at odd hours, does she?

I don't think she will last a month staying with the clean friend. She's not ready to change.

BSgoinon's picture

She has texted him late, sometimes 11 or midnight on school nights. He is, of course, asleep and doesn't see it until morning. And almost NEVER responds anyway. Any activity on his phone after 9 PM is emailed to me the next day.

I think especially since DH is not allowing SS to go to this house either she has no reason to be there. It won't last. I almost have a feeling that she won't ever even stay there. Just try to use his house to store her crap. She was granted a 2 day extension on her eviction, so she had to be out of her house at 8am today. 45 minutes ago...

BSgoinon's picture

If she starts pulling that crap with him, we will. She will have to go through us to talk to him.

Maxwell09's picture

Wow. What in the world could possibly be important so early in the morning?! She had to know he wasn't going to answer because normal people are sleeping.

BSgoinon's picture

My sister thinks she was trying to call her dealer and was tweaking so hard she couldn't see straight.

z3girl's picture

BM used to do that to us. Most often (yes, it was more than once) when I was 8-9 months pregnant and I couldn't fall back to sleep after hearing the phone. DH didn't care. Grr. So glad those days are over. Now that SD24 is emancipated, DH ignores BM enough for her to not call or text as frequently.

I feel your pain. Wink

BSgoinon's picture

Well we silence our cell phones at night, so it didn't wake us. And... most of the time, he has her number on "do not disturb" so it doesn't ring anyway.

z3girl's picture

DH refused to silent his. He said he needed to be available in case of emergency. He also made the excuse for BM that "she woke up for work at 4 am, so that's why she called at that time." Best part was it wasn't an emergency; she called to ask if his life insurance was up to date because their former neighbor dropped dead that week. Nice.

She has since retired and SD24 moved out of her house, so the calls have lessened.

This was DH's fault.

BSgoinon's picture

We shut ours down at 10 when we head to bed. The only thing that makes noise is my alarm at 5 am, and the select few "VIP" my kids my parents and my sisters. I never have my actual ringer turned on. Everything comes through to my watch. So once I put my watch on, I don't miss anything. DH is pretty much the same way unless he is working with his hands, or riding one of the motorcycles, then he turns his ringer on and takes off the watch. But... BM's number is on DND, so it never notifies him when she calls or texts. It shows up on the phone but it gives no notifications. No sounds, no vibrate and doesn't go through to the watch. If it is "important" she can leave a message and he will decide if he needs to call her back. When SS is with her, that ONE HOUR a week, we both have our phones on us and track him on the find iPhone anyway.

BSgoinon's picture

Just no telling with her. I try not to think too far in to it, it kind of makes me sick. That dumb broad has never been a threat to my marriage, so she can TRY as hard as she wants. Her toothless, scar-faced, herpes riddled ass can continue to go to voicemail Blum 3

You have seen pictures of both DH and BM, she USED to be decent looking but now.... shoot, if he was gonna cheat on me, it better be with someone better looking than that }:) She sure thinks she is cute though. Some of her FB posts are downright "piss my pants" funny!

WalkOnBy's picture

My phone does the same thing from 10 pm to 6am. My parents, my kids, my husband (if he's out of town) and my great aunt can reach me.

Everyone else waits til the next morning Smile

Tuff Noogies's picture

wow... she's such a sorry waste of air.

ps- i think that's awesome how any activity on ss' phone gets emailed after hours! if i cared, i'd do that with kaos.

BSgoinon's picture

I have the parental controls set on all of the kids phones so we know if they are on their phones after bed time. A few weeks ago SS had a friend over on the weekend. The email comes trough that he was making MULTIPLE (like 30) phone calls at 10 pm. I immediately knew they were crank calling people. And that's when they all figured out I can see their activity after hours }:) BUSTED.

winter80's picture

BSgoinon, what program do you have on your SS cell phone that emails you all communication after 9pm?

BSgoinon's picture

Monkey, he actually confronted her on it last night. I was so proud of him. I'm going to post about it in a minute. Smile

givemesugar's picture

Everytime he says anything or creeps back in non boundary zones just say you would like it if a man any man was texting or calling me at 4 am you would want me to tell that person I am married and you need to respect boundaries

givemesugar's picture

Everytime he says anything or creeps back in non boundary zones just say you would like it if a man any man was texting or calling me at 4 am you would want me to tell that person I am married and you need to respect boundaries

BSgoinon's picture

She gets government issues phones for free, her number changes every month or so. I don't care if she calls him. DH has strong boundaries with her and doesn't give in to her bullshit.

givemesugar's picture

Or call cell phone provider and have number blocked. Or police that is harassment at that time come on