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How many of the Stepparents on here keep tabs on BM/BD on Facebook?

briarmommy's picture

Just a quick poll how many of the people on here keep tracks of there significant others ex's on facebook? There was some comments about it in another blog and I was just curious how many of us do it, and what peoples opinions were right or wrong?

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stormabruin's picture

Yep! Smile

helena_brass's picture

Actually, I blocked her. I don't want to see her face, nor do I want her trying to snoop into my life.

SisterNeko's picture

Nope, she blocked me. I do hear somethings from other people but I don't seek it out.

alwaysanxious's picture

No, I blocked her. Thus, I can't see her. I don't want to know anything. The less I know the less frustrated I am.

SteppingUp's picture

We do. We started so that we could start proving that she goes out all the time on nights she has the skids...when you only have your children half the month you shouldn't need to go out when you do....and get paid child support then.

LostInTheMess's picture

Nope - if i thought there was a safety issue that I could prove by her posts, then yes - most definetly.

Anon2009's picture

I don't, but DH does just in case anything comes up. I have her blocked from my fb and twitter accounts.

stormabruin's picture

I blocked BM from my real account, but can still sign into my "other" account & see her page.

buttercookie's picture

Our BM is a teachers aide too and is about as smart as yours LOL she even drives underage girls 14 years old to see 20 to 25 year old men and the school doesn't seem to care.

One Life Once Chance's picture

We don't anymore, now that Skid is 18. When we were going to court on a regular basis due to BM and SS's craziness, drugs, etc - we went on regularly as they put everything out there.

Used some of what they posted in court.

Now that he's 18 and DH isn't legally/financially responsible for him, who cares what they do.

buttercookie's picture

I didn't even realize she had a facebook account, she is not computer literate. She attacked me with Stain when adult stain wanted another car bought for him since he didn't take care of the first. I blocked both of them after I printed out what they wrote and told them if they continue I will seek legal remedy since I have nothing to do with either of them, I didn't birth stain and I was never married to see you next tuesday. I wouldn't want to even know what the two of them do. I stopped dealing with crazy when I booted lazy stain out.

Unfreakingreal's picture

I log on under someone else's page to see BM's page. Mostly just to see how she spends my DH's CS. It's usually this bar or that bar. Or this restaurant or that one. She doesn't post anything interesting really. My SIL on the other hand is forever posting crap on BM's wall & I sometimes wonder if its intentional as everything that bitch does usually is.

Polo's picture

Only once, last year, when SS17 had been particularly obnoxious with his lying and some of SOs family members were getting involved in the lies and telling SO that it was terrible the way that he was being treated. Again all lies. So i checked his FB, which had no controls on it so any one could read it and I was shocked at the some of the things he was writing. I then blocked him from my FB, just in case he was checking out mine tho I didnt believe he would as that would be too much effort (very lazy). The following day my SO asked me to see if he was still saying terrible things on FB and I realised he had overnight blocked me in return.

This shocked me because i had never considered that he might be watching my FB and I realised then just how much I had underestimated his efforts to cause trouble between SO and myself. I personally have not seen in him the best part of a year. He is around every second weekend and I take off to do my own stuff. His routine is sleep every day til 2 or 3 then go out to hang out down town. So I just make sure I'm out before 1 and back after 3 and I need never see him. In bed before he comes home. So much easier once I made the decision to detach. Took SO time to adjust but now we are getting better than we have in years. DETACH is the magic word.

Nowadays I post very little on FB, do pms instead, just in case he set up other account to watch me.

Soon-to-be-Step-Mommy's picture

DH and I used to print things BM would post on hers and others walls to use in court until she blocked us. She would say terrible things about DH, and also last year publicly announced that she made the "worst mistake of her life 7 years ago and was full of regret" what a coincidence that the date seemed to coincide with the date she got pregnant with SD!