I have never believed myself to be insecure or jealous. I've had a lot of conversations with friends & they've always commented how chill I am about things... With that said my DH ex, texts saying "we make beautiful kids" also says she prefers phone calls because she misses hearing his voice. She said that in front of her husband & me!!! She also uses the f'n winky face in texting all the freaking time! Now I said I'm not, by nature, a jealous person & I don't feel necessarily jealous, I feel more pissed! It lights me up because when they were married she was a whore & he forgave & forgave & I feel like she's trying to mess with us because she doesn't have a respect for marriage. My husband is very sweet, calm & very nonreactional... I think she's trying to get a reaction from him or I also. My DH thinks it's weird, but doesn't react, just shows me & says "this is weird" I feel like if he was to say "don't do or say or text..." She would only do it more. So he is just isn't overly friendly with information & courtesies & tries to mainly text & ignores the weird crap. Anyone have this experience? Thoughts? Advice?