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boxermom2033's picture

Ya know I never in my life knew kids could be so ungrateful and unappreciative...I experienced this first hand the last couple of days. My step son has lived with us since he was 14, and now he is 23. He had the nerve to do nothing but bad mouth me and his father to my son. He told my son that no one was treated equally in this house, told him that all "the crew" did was sit and talk about him. Even had the nerve to basically accuse my husband and I of taking money from him.   I'm sorry, but I sure don't need your money. I have been so mad the last few days. My husband came home from work yesterday morning and told me SS called and said he had found an apartment and would be moving out. Thank God for answered prayers. We have been allowing him and his fiance to stay here until the wedding date. That was the biggest mistake we could have ever made. Our house has been in complete turmoil since about two weeks of her being here. I will not be attending the wedding of my SS and neither will my kids. I have blocked my SS and his fiancé phone number from my phone as well as all social media. I hate it so bad for my husband, but I have so much peace. I have a peace about me that I have not had in years. I have never really realized how much of my joy my SS took from me. I know my husband loves his kids more than anything, but I'm wiping my hands clean from them. 

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boxermom2033's picture

Indeed he can....I have absolutely enjoyed this weekend so much with them Not being here. Lord who ever knew being a step parent was so hard! No matter if you treated them like gold you are ALWAYS the bad guy. Sometimes being a step parent just plain sucks! 

Survivingstephell's picture

It's amazing when toxic energy leaves the building and you recognize it. 

boxermom2033's picture

Absolutely!!! I truly feel like a weight has been lifted off of me. It's crazy how much relief I feel.