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Just when I thought it was safe to come out.. /update on previous blog

borrowedtime83's picture

:O
So after BM called last Thursday and made a bunch of threats because SD10 was going around saying I said "F U" to her, she then acted like nothing happened Sun evening. Even brought SD10 back home and called first to make sure we were home and was overall not a bitch. I was pretty shocked.
Then SO came home from work today and said, "you know how you said yesterday that you would be amazed if this was over? Well, it's not." Apparently his mom went on my Facebook page and saw what I wrote Thurs evening after the BM drama and automatically assumed I was talking about her. So then when SO went to pick up SD10 from her house (she has a home daycare and watches her for free) she started a huge fight with him about it, and about how he didn't immediately side with SD10 over the disagreement from last week. Because I guess if you don't agree with someone when they are wrong you are a traitor and don't love or care about them. Then she also, for good measure, threw in that maybe my DD won't be welcome over there the last week of this month when her usual daycare is closed. I told SO f that I will just find another sitter, I don't respond to threats or play childish games; esp where my job is concerned. Wtf is wrong with people? Like MIL, like ex-wife I guess.

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borrowedtime83's picture

Yup. The one favor I have asked in the last 3 years and I still have to find my own sitter. She also just assumed that I expected free daycare. The saddest part is SO finally had to admit that MIL really wants nothing to do with my kids. He was brainwashed into thinking that it was just my imagination up until today. It must have been bad.

borrowedtime83's picture

He did. But I guess both BM and MIL assumed that it was misplaced loyalty and no matter what he should have taken SD's side, or Mom's side. WTF? I have a kid (DD) with serious behavior problems, so do I everytime I get a call from the school/daycare/Girl Scout leader just take my kids side because I "love her" more and she is my family? Ugh, no! She is a little shit sometimes and needs to be taught she can't do and say whatever she wants, whenever she wants. SD is no different. She (SD) has already admitted to us she didn't really know what was said besides "some cuss words" but went ahead and told MIL and BM that I said "F U SD10." Everyone assumes she is innocent of everything because my kid is SOOOOOO bad all the time, but I am basically a professional BS detector and I call BS on this situation.