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I think I want to leave my husband
We've had a lot of drama from BM since we got married. Multiple false allegations made to CPS, calls to the police, all kinds of accusations made through her lawyer periodically. My own kids' names have been included in court documents. I'm constantly painted as some kind of monster. My husband agreed that we can't keep fighting and putting our two kids at risk anymore. The next time BM does something, it could mean an investigation from CPS.
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Frustration with husband regarding abuse allegations
My husband emailed BM this week to arrange for SD11 to come for another day visit. BM couldn't help but be an asshole by saying, "You must feel like a big tough man for getting away with abusing your daughter!!!! I don't care what anyone else says, SD will always know what you did to her and she will always hate you for it!!! If I ever have to hire and pay a lawyer again because of something you've done I will personally charge you!!!""
SD11's first visit in 4 months
My husband picked up SD on Saturday morning. BM still made him do most of the driving "as per the court order" (she loves to pick and choose what she follows from the CO). My husband brought DD7 with him for the ride, both ways.
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SD11 is coming tomorrow for the first time in over 4 months...
My husband is picking her up and just bringing her for a day visit. I have no idea what we're going to do or how things are going to be when she first gets to our house. DD7 is very excited, although I wish my husband hadn't told her that SD is coming just in case BM pulls another stunt and doesn't send her.
SD is coming in two weeks - DH is thrilled and just wants to keep taking it from BM apparently
So DH called me to say that he talked to BM and SD is making her return to our house on the August long weekend. I told him I'm apprehensive about it. How can she just suddenly return after not seeing us for 4 months? We were "abusing" her in April.....now everything is fine despite the fact that we haven't changed anything?
SD had a “breakthrough” in therapy today apparently....she might return after all
Drama with BM this week (I emailed to suggest a meeting between the two of us with the therapist - BM declined - apparently even though she’s never met me, she’s concluded it would be “risky” to meet me - many insults followed).
Today we got an email from the therapist saying SD had a miraculous breakthrough. She mentioned two major issues she has:
1) She doesn’t want to hear her parents discussing anything about court or lawyers (this isn’t us - we have seen her for a total of 7 hours under “supervision” in the last 4 months, so obviously BM is filling her in).
Potential meeting with BM and counsellor
I was previously posting under a different account. I needed to take a step away from here for awhile so I deleted all of my blogs and the account. Some of you will recognize my story. My old username was Daenerys.
Timeline of events:
Easter weekend: DH gives DD7 and SD11 trouble for not listening. He ended up giving each of them a nudge on the bum with his foot and telling them to get up off the floor. They were both giggling at him the whole time.